tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post6545882721403812168..comments2012-09-14T22:01:39.042-07:00Comments on The Asendorf Duo: InfertilityJared and Kimberly Asendorfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06948128371294094946noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-88154384440758659732012-09-14T22:01:39.042-07:002012-09-14T22:01:39.042-07:00Thanks gals for all of your kind comments & co...Thanks gals for all of your kind comments & concern! I really appreciate it. Just to let you guys know that Jared & I will be starting the IVF procedure as soon as we can. We're both cautiously optimistic and praying and hoping for the best. We are however only doing this procedure once (as it's pretty costly). So if you will keep us in your prayers, we would really appreciate it. :) Thanks again for the love! Whether it be through this IVF procedure or adopting eventually, we cannot wait to be parents one day.Jared and Kimberly Asendorfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06948128371294094946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-21296912002255622732012-09-12T07:56:25.529-07:002012-09-12T07:56:25.529-07:00Kimmi, I am so sorry! I had a recent experience wi...Kimmi, I am so sorry! I had a recent experience with endometriosis and had surgery to remove it. I'm sure my experience doesn't compare but I can say that I am more understanding what you may be experiencing than I was before. Josh and I will pray for you. My suggestion is to do whatever you can to bring your babies here. If you have your patriarchal blessing, read it often. I will also put your names on the temple prayer roll. Keep us updated and let me know when you'll be coming to Logan next so we can get together k.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12669153398373536961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-30337974914020361532012-09-10T15:11:07.608-07:002012-09-10T15:11:07.608-07:00Kim, I pray for you guys all the time. It seems s...Kim, I pray for you guys all the time. It seems sometimes that Heavenly Father makes conceiving the hardest on the people who are the most deserving and best fitted. I guess because he knows you will do anything and then that baby will be the most loved thing ever. Don't give up- it will happen for you! Maybe not the way you always envisioned it, but it will. We love you and don't forget about all your awesome family that is by your side too!<br />ChristyTeam Smith Adventureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01317999476183003262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-88524592985447041292012-09-07T16:37:00.006-07:002012-09-07T16:37:00.006-07:00Hey. I am sorry that you guys are having trouble. ...Hey. I am sorry that you guys are having trouble. We will definately keep you and Jared in our thoughts and prayers. We are in the same boat you are in however our situation is different. We had our second attempt at IVF about a month ago and for the second time it failed. I of course was devistated. We are now taking a break and changing doctors. It is really hard but everything will work out. You just need to relax, pray, and take things one step at a time. If you ever want to talk about the procedure or anything, call me (714-322-9974) or send me a message.J + Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10089204527481522319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-20122812949020437722012-09-07T15:03:42.321-07:002012-09-07T15:03:42.321-07:00Kimmy!!! We will DEFINITELY pray for you! The shot...Kimmy!!! We will DEFINITELY pray for you! The shots... eeek! I wanna visit you ASAP! Now that you're back, we MUST do a visit together :)<br /><br />I am so proud of you. Thank you so much for your humility and trust in God. Your desire to be a mommy is so pure that I Know Heavenly Father will bless you. The IVF procedure sounds simply, scary, and exciting. If you do this, then you will know that you tried everything you could for that sweet child who will come through you and Jared, or adoption. Either way, your kids mean that much to you to go through shots every day for 12 days! <br />I look up to you. We support you in whatever happens and are there for you. Even when you admit your frustration and sadness at times, you are still one of the most special women I know. A woman so special wouldn't even have those concerns! Now-a-days, children aren't a priority as much as other things. I applaud your desire to be a mother. I wish for the same. <br />I take comfort in your strength. :) Everything will be okay... even if it's easier said than done. ;)<br /><3Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05179586602167289973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1144159120898651810.post-11085509629589033162012-09-07T12:47:36.672-07:002012-09-07T12:47:36.672-07:00Ah, you sweet woman. I wish there was something I...Ah, you sweet woman. I wish there was something I could do to help you and I'm sure that even saying 'I'm sorry' doesn't really help. Just that we all have our own trials in life and that Heavenly Father never gives us more than we can handle; I know one day you'll be blessed with a baby.<br /><br />I think doing IVF is the right thing to do; even though it's a lot of money and even more emotionally and financially draining than what you've been going through...it's better to try than regret not trying in the future.<br /><br />I have a friend who had to have IVF in order to get pregnant with her second child; turned out she got pregnant with twins! If you'd like to read what she went through, check out her blog: http://jaromandkristin.blogspot.com/search?updated-max=2012-02-19T11:26:00-07:00&max-results=10&start=33&by-date=false.<br /><br />And yes, I will pray for you and send all my love as you try for a baby. But please don't blame yourself and think that you're letting your hubby down. <br /><br />You two are "one" and so it is a trial for both of you. What a lucky woman you are to have him supporting you through it all.<br /><br />Heavenly Father knows your desire to be a mother and he knows how much potential you have in that role...so you will be blessed one day. Keep your chin up girl.<br /><br />(I have another friend that had difficulty getting pregnant...they built their family through adoption: http://danandemilyfurse.blogspot.com/)<br /><br />I think her blog is private so if you're interested in reading about their "journey" try emailing her and getting permission: emily_furse@hotmail.com or finding her on FB.<br /><br />LOVE!Sabrina J. Shyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742566925754062602noreply@blogger.com